@Leakfan12,
@Escambia94,
Just wanted to make sure y’all in particular saw this, since I DIDN’T start a new thread with it instead (as maybe I should have?)...Oh well—Here we go:
Congratulations to the 2020 Florida Gators, your winners of the McElwain Trophy! The McElwain Trophy is awarded to SEC East teams that back into the SEC Championship Game in an embarrassing fashion. True to 2020 form, this year's award has been augmented with a special edition LSU football cleat. Again, congratulations to the mighty Gators of Florida..the SEC Junior Division Chumps!
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Yes—I’m smiling, at least: Funny, if a little “close to the bone”—BUT IT STILL HURTS...Mainly because it IS an all too practical reminder that maybe we haven’t come so far from the kind of team that reflected our LAST Head Coach’s basic lack of honor, commitment and attention to detail.
Bad. ABSOLUTELY the worst way this otherwise surprising, MOSTLY ENCOURAGING season could turn and wind down. I mean, I had already come to realize that expecting anything BUT our getting beaten in the SEC Championship Game was a fool’s errand—a set-up for frustration and disappointment; I was in the process of adapting to that idea, putting it and the whole season before and after into perspective...but NOW!
I THOUGHT I’d be writing this kind of “face reality” essay after the NEXT GAME...But here we are, earlier and in deeper shit than even I expected.
It’s still all too much for me to simply absorb and accept at this point. I know I’ll HAVE to—and soon. But for now, all I can do is turn away, let it settle.
A part of me wants to vent—wishes that would make it HURT LESS. But it changes nothing—and only intensifies the bad feelings already swirling around inside me, tying up my guts.
I invite you all to go ahead and do so yourselves, if you think that will help. It just might—give it a shot here if you like.
Believe me: I was just numb at first...
I THOUGHT I might get to feeling the anger I sensed lurking at the edges of my awareness last night after the game, stronger and stronger overnight and into today—and to SOME extent that has been the case...but at the same time, I’m coming around to a wider, “big picture”-view of it all too:
Yes, that was a shitty way to lose, full of mistakes and dumbass moves. Plenty of BLAME to go around, as I’ve noted.
A sad, weak fade out on what HAD developed into a surprisingly hopeful season.
But all that’s broken and in pieces now.
It is up to us to pick up and make what we can of what remains:
I won’t even begin to DARE to suggest how Dan Mullen, his staff and TEAM might go about doing that—but I WILL try and speak for US.
We will, at SOME point, have to leave last night’s game, the shadow it casts on how we see and remember this whole season and how it affects the future—that of the Gator TEAM AND its fans in weeks, months and YEARS TO COME.
It can and might consume us all, be seen later as a “turning point”, DOWN or UP!
WHICH, “turning point” “DOWN” or “UP”, will depend on many things—but though it is mostly in the hands of Coach, players, staff (and everyone around and behind them) bringing in and continuing to build the right group of players into a noble and deserving WINNING SIDE, let US, as fans, at least TRY and be the kind of folks who stand behind our team when they are DOWN. When hard times have come and “normal folk” get mad, turn their backs and point fingers,
WE MUST find a way to somehow recognize and SUPPORT the positive—be “part of the solution rather than part of the problem”.
I know it will be hard. I have no immediate idea of how to even go about it: Sad to say, I know how to GET ANGRY, how to POINT a FINGER, how to BLAME.
...What isn’t at ALL clear to me is how to truly HELP now.
Perhaps it is just to NOT do ANY OF THAT...To stand back, and for now, ENDURE. Just as our players must do now: We all must confront the reality we have played our own parts in creating.
How far this all sets us back is unknown, hard to figure, but in the end it is the one thing that IS still up to us, in our own hands—ours, the players’ and coaches’ attitude and actions in response from here.
It is up to us then to think in terms of mutual support, in our case to support each other, all Gators who are HURTING BAD, our Head Coach, his staff and players and whatever moves, subtle and drastic that they are moved to take now.
And maybe THAT is the one “GOOD THING” that might come of the way things played out here after all.
Even before last night’s game I had come belatedly to the idea that we just weren’t as good, as “CLOSE” as we might have been feeling with this program—this had been a “special” season mostly BECAUSE of how we DIDN’T have “the whole package”, the “COMPLETE TEAM” in place here, but rather were getting it done with a certain patchwork of the “freakishly talented” and some “previously overlooked” all coming together and coming through for short stretches at crucial times. Yesterday it finally all misfired too often at the worst times.
In the long run we just can’t get to be what we want to be, get where we want to go and STAY THERE, without backing up and rebuilding properly. Our Coach knows that. And he knows he can’t do it alone—even WITH the right pieces and depth out there ON the field.
What really HURTS SO MUCH I think is HOW CLOSE WE REALLY CAME TO GOING UNDEFEATED ANYWAY—and how multiple all-too-Human failures, mistakes and letdowns doomed us in the end. The thing is, with everything else happening, AND with that Saban built, coached and led Alabama team out there, I think most of already realized we weren’t gonna make it there this time ANYWAY.
So I’m not gonna point the finger at anyone in particular. I have a feeling some changes are forthcoming—but those are mostly in our Coach’s hands, and if he doesn’t have a pretty good idea already what needs doing, who AND what needs to be DOING it, then we are in deeper, longer term shit than simply having the one season more or less gone sour, and now a few MORE months and a hopefully still-promising recruiting season away from “reloading” and making a truer run at greatness “NEXT time”.
“Wait’ll NEXT year!” The eternal cry of hope in sports. But in this case, THIS time, WE at least are lucky enough to have some hope of seeing it fulfilled, at some point.